Three Stages Of Life

CHILDHOOD
Allah gave us countless blessings and childhood is one of these blessings. I have no words to explain the real joys of golden period, called childhood. When a child comes in this word, he knows noting about anything. First of all, he just observes that his parents and other relatives are looking towards him with happiness on their faces. He is totally ignorant about he meanings of sorrows, and other miseries of life, which are waiting for him in future. But these happy days are no too much longer.
When he reaches the age of round about 4 years, the pain rushed towards him. Now he has to go to school and in school definitely, he would have to do work there. Now, he wants to play all the time but he can’t do so. He is to do his homework; he has the tension for his next day in school. But still he is very relaxed. His one and only duty is to do his homework and all the remaining day is for him, which is promising for him, offering him lot of entertainment and joys.
At the age of fifteen, his troubles increase much. Now the burden of studies and work is increasing day by day. He has achieved some sense and aware with the fact that one day he is to die but still his not too much mature. According to him, death is natural phenomenon and everyone has to pass this one. And noting else. He did not know the pain of death, the sorrow that the relatives of dying person have to face and so on.
When he reaches the age of eighteen, his childhood has been passed to some extent and now he is going to say farewell to childhood and youth welcomes him.
YOUTH
Youth!!!! What a beautiful word!! According to the majority of people, youth is the golden era of one’s life but I personally not agree with this saying. According to me, childhood (1 to 15 years) is the only period of real joy and happiness. And who once lose it, he has noting left remain for him. anyhow, youth has itself a great blessing. A person feels himself the very powerful person who can do anything, which he wants. The word is still colorful for him or may be more colorful as compare to prior one. In this stage of life his most concern is to remain very neat and clean. He always tries to remain well dressed, and well mannered. Now he has been passed the matriculation(if he carries on his studies) and has been took admission in college. Here in college, no MOOLA BUKHSH” no roars of teachers and he finds himself more free and independent. He spends his days in the ground of college, makes new friends. And remain very cheerful all the day. In short, if you want to see happiness, the pure happiness then see any group sitting in the college ground. Just imagine that this is a winter day, and time is round about 1:30 PM, last period is going on and which is probably of Social Studies. Only the teacher and a little number of students are present in the class. And the majority of students are sitting in the sun on college ground. All their books and files are scattered around them. They are telling and listening the stories an7d jokes and no one is without laugh on his face. They look too much cheerful and if you want to see real, the real and only real happiness laughters, then find it on the faces of these college students. In this period of life, he enjoys his life to great extend. He enjoys movies, enjoys music and enjoys games. To watch games and to play games himself…… Ohhhh Youth you are match less
OLD AGE
Oh old age, you are noting but repentance. The world is so, dark and dull for old persons. They have lost respect, and totally ignored by the others. It seems as they are sitting on a railway station’s waiting room and waiting for the train same way they are waiting for their death. They have fear in their heart. They don’t want to go leaving all their relatives. But they know that they will have to go and when they look on their past life, it seems as they did noting good in their life. Just observe carefully their eyes. You will find them wet, sinking in tears all the time and they feel as they live very short period in the earth. Neither they can eat nor can drink. They can take hardly counted bites all the day. The grave is waiting him and hi is waiting his death. You can observe the wrinkles on the old faces and these wrinkles tell the plight of their present, they can nor move neither do anything. Just waiting for their death like that statue, which is placed in a dressing shop and looks all the people around him, same way old persons nor can speak properly neither can listen. They can just remember their past and repent for it. And they can just feel the steps of death, coming nearer and nearer to them, they can feel the darkness of grave, can imagine the pain of death, when they look towards the misdeeds done by them, they feel very little gape between them and hell. But still they have hopes that Allah will forgive them and I am sure that Allah is so merciful that He will forgive us the human beings. At last we are His creations so my Allah will ignore my faults and will forgive me. L

Our History Folder

The users of computer and internet are familiar with the history folder. While browsing, web pages, automatically store in this folder. This history folder contains the pages upto 20 days but user can increase or decrease the number of days according to the capacity of hard drive. If the system has large hard drive, user can increase the number of days to store the history of long time.
This history folder is very useful and we can browse this folder day wise, week wise or month wise. We can find our all visited web pages. If we want to browse this history folder, we find a shortcut available at our web browser. We just click and see all our history but where the actually data stored on the hard drive, very few people know it.
All this discussion was about a machine called computer and made by human. The history folder is no doubt much useful but still there is no problem if we delete history.
Now come to another machine which is the most complicated machine in this universe and that is human being. If a computer programmer thinks it important that there should be a history folder to store automatically all our events, then how it is possible that Allah doesn’t store all our activities in the history folder. Surely, every individual has his/her own unique history folder and not only our actions but our thinkings of mind also store there in history folder. Allah will open this history folder on judgment day and then we will find all our activities.
Like CCleaner, there are many other softwares available to maintain the system by deleting all harmful files store on the hard disk. Same way, “TOBA” deletes our unpleasant storage on our history folder.
But unluckily we don’t know that on which place our history is being saved. While looking towards the stars, an idea crossed to my mind that there may be some star dedicated to our history and all our incidents and activities automatically store there. Then I wished to visit that star or place where my history is being saved. How much it would be pleasant to browse all my history, day by day and year by year. But we were, we are and we will remain fail to find that storage media where our history is being stored.
System administrator gives limited rights to access the system with the fear that user can corrupt or damage some important files or work due to his/her limited skills and knowledge. Or in other words, system administrator thinks that user’s limited knowledge could be harmful for system, he restricts the user to only his concerned files. Same way, Allah restricts us to access such history storage place to view. But same time Allah provides us shortcuts to delete our black storage data. These shortcuts are our good deeds, well behavior, prayers, our tears (come out of our eyes to remembering our sins).
If we purchase new computer we find book manual to use it and following these guidelines of book manual, our computer will never go out of order. Same way, Allah also provides us our book manual to lead our life, and that is the Holly Quran.
In the end, if our system contains too much errors and unwanted data, we have an option to format the hard disk but doing so, we not only delete our unwanted data but also formatting deletes our important data. Allah also provides us opportunity to format our history. If we perform Hajj, it is as we format our history folder but here we only delete our black data, means sins.
May Allah give us strenghth to lead our life according to His guidelines written in the Holy Quran and practically performed by Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad Sal-Allah-Ho-Elayhe- Wasalam. Aamin
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Our Brothers in Offices

All the employees have to go to office early in the morning or in other words, office is a place where all the employees come daily to perform their assigned duties. Some people want to spend more and more time in the office where majority of the employees hates to perform routine office work. What the employees like and what they dislike it is other matter but there is reality that the employees spend all life in the offices. They just go home to spend night and then again early morning leave the home to go their offices. It means that employees spend the golden part of their life with the colleagues and attached deeply with one an other. But there is a bitter reality that after spending years and years together, there we find the vast gulfs between every individual. Every time they wait for any bit of other’s weak point to play with him and when they find such opportunity, the evil of their inner shines crystal clearly. So, I don’t know what to do on this plight should we laugh on this attitude or weep. On the one hand, it is so much plight of human nature that I take pity of the human nature but same time I want to mock this situation. Why this is so, they daily come, spend at least 8 hours daily on the same place and stay together for years but what they gain? Just poison for others and selfishness. If a person daily go our for a walk in any park or other place, he just complete one track in a day and still emotionally involved with trees and plants and if someday he find some plant missing, he gets worry in his mind about that plant. If we have some pet animal in our home we get attachment with even that animal and have some soft corner for that animal. But why we don’t care our colleagues are we worse than the animals and plants???? Now here just see how little things are which create abhorrence between employees.
The employees are very found of drinking tea. They enjoy tea at least three or four times daily. It is often observed that anyone face shortage of milk or sugar. Now he ask form other and when other gives his required thing, its well and good but if he replies in negative, first employee keeps in his mind and it is the seed of abhorrence. He will keep in his mind with reference of date and time and will take revenge when find any opportunity.
Newspaper is another thing which creates problems with employees. When one is reading newspapers others feels jealous that why he is reading it first and why his turn will come after the turn of other employee. Everyone wants to read the newspaper first but when the collection of money (against the bill of newspaper) is being in process everyone complains that his turn daily come after then lunch brake. So, why he is being said to pay for it?
If one employee is giving order to peon for water or tea and during this time, other employee calls the peon first employee will be very angry. That why the other interrupted the peon when he was talking to him?
If one employee flatters the boss, other employees feels jealously that why he is flattering the boss and then the first employee will describe to others and all the laugh when the flatter comes out of boss’s room in short everyone tries to get closer and closer to the boss.
So, when they find any one in trouble all the remaining employees enjoy his trouble and try all their best to pull his leg more and more.
But they majority of employees daily start their work with the name of Allah, use the screen savers of holly pictures of “KABA” and give maximum references of holy verses while talking.
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Common Interests

Talking, chatting and sharing ideas are the most common sources to bring the people closer with each other. Where the minds and ideas match, there we find the growth of friendship. For example, even smoking can be the base of friendship between the two people, music and games can also bring the people close but if there is no any mutual interest between the people still they can come closer with the help of their interest.
Just to check this, start your conversation with anyone and while talking, start the topic of his/her most interested game, activity or even lover, soon you will feel that the other person to whom you are chatting, suddenly become more energetic. His dying and fading voice replace with energy and interest and with the help of that topic you can come closer to the other person.
What it shows, this is because of the fact that the people always love to talk about their interests. They feel much excitement while talking about their love and interest. First, they will hesitate but when you win the trust, you find the shortage of time to listen them.