Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Our Brothers in Offices

All the employees have to go to office early in the morning or in other words, office is a place where all the employees come daily to perform their assigned duties. Some people want to spend more and more time in the office where majority of the employees hates to perform routine office work. What the employees like and what they dislike it is other matter but there is reality that the employees spend all life in the offices. They just go home to spend night and then again early morning leave the home to go their offices. It means that employees spend the golden part of their life with the colleagues and attached deeply with one an other. But there is a bitter reality that after spending years and years together, there we find the vast gulfs between every individual. Every time they wait for any bit of other’s weak point to play with him and when they find such opportunity, the evil of their inner shines crystal clearly. So, I don’t know what to do on this plight should we laugh on this attitude or weep. On the one hand, it is so much plight of human nature that I take pity of the human nature but same time I want to mock this situation. Why this is so, they daily come, spend at least 8 hours daily on the same place and stay together for years but what they gain? Just poison for others and selfishness. If a person daily go our for a walk in any park or other place, he just complete one track in a day and still emotionally involved with trees and plants and if someday he find some plant missing, he gets worry in his mind about that plant. If we have some pet animal in our home we get attachment with even that animal and have some soft corner for that animal. But why we don’t care our colleagues are we worse than the animals and plants???? Now here just see how little things are which create abhorrence between employees.
The employees are very found of drinking tea. They enjoy tea at least three or four times daily. It is often observed that anyone face shortage of milk or sugar. Now he ask form other and when other gives his required thing, its well and good but if he replies in negative, first employee keeps in his mind and it is the seed of abhorrence. He will keep in his mind with reference of date and time and will take revenge when find any opportunity.
Newspaper is another thing which creates problems with employees. When one is reading newspapers others feels jealous that why he is reading it first and why his turn will come after the turn of other employee. Everyone wants to read the newspaper first but when the collection of money (against the bill of newspaper) is being in process everyone complains that his turn daily come after then lunch brake. So, why he is being said to pay for it?
If one employee is giving order to peon for water or tea and during this time, other employee calls the peon first employee will be very angry. That why the other interrupted the peon when he was talking to him?
If one employee flatters the boss, other employees feels jealously that why he is flattering the boss and then the first employee will describe to others and all the laugh when the flatter comes out of boss’s room in short everyone tries to get closer and closer to the boss.
So, when they find any one in trouble all the remaining employees enjoy his trouble and try all their best to pull his leg more and more.
But they majority of employees daily start their work with the name of Allah, use the screen savers of holly pictures of “KABA” and give maximum references of holy verses while talking.
Thank you for reading my post and spending your precious time.

Friday, July 2, 2010

Common Interests

Talking, chatting and sharing ideas are the most common sources to bring the people closer with each other. Where the minds and ideas match, there we find the growth of friendship. For example, even smoking can be the base of friendship between the two people, music and games can also bring the people close but if there is no any mutual interest between the people still they can come closer with the help of their interest.
Just to check this, start your conversation with anyone and while talking, start the topic of his/her most interested game, activity or even lover, soon you will feel that the other person to whom you are chatting, suddenly become more energetic. His dying and fading voice replace with energy and interest and with the help of that topic you can come closer to the other person.
What it shows, this is because of the fact that the people always love to talk about their interests. They feel much excitement while talking about their love and interest. First, they will hesitate but when you win the trust, you find the shortage of time to listen them.